
I am going to start off this post in a different way...
I will start by warning all of you, who are reading this, that this post may cause you a few sleepless nights! In this post I will challenge each of us to become more introspective toward our lives and our professions.
Now that I have addressed that...let's get started!
In my last post I made the comparison between fishing a sales. This post will take on a much greater topic!
A little over two years ago, as I was preparing for my final exams, I got a phone call from my Dad...
"Hey Bud"- "What's goin on Dad?"
"Well I have good news and bad news for you"- "Ok....go ahead"
"We I am in the hospital...but I am ok."That morning, as my dad was getting ready to catch a flight, he started having severe chest pains. When my step mom asked if my Dad needed to go to the hospital my Dad gave her an overwhelming YES! For my dad to risk missing a flight to get checked out, she knew that something was seriously wrong! Being a nurse, she didn't take any chances and drove my dad to the emergency room immediately.
As they began performing some tests on my dad the nurse "attempted" to give my dad something for the pain. My dad quickly jumped in and said...
"If at all possible, I would like to avoid taking anything. I have a flight here in a bit and I really need to make it"The nurse did not argue but she did return with the doctor...
"Mr. Jacobus...the nurse said you didn't want anything for the pain."
- "Well I have a flight here in a few hours and I would really like to catch it if I can""Mr. Jacobus...Sorry to be so blunt but you are not going home today! You are not going home tomorrow! You probably won't be going home this week! You have a bilateral pulmonary embolism!"- "Is that serious?"
"Well Mr. Jacobus...IF you had made it to the airport....and IF you had made it on the airplane...I can GUARANTEE you would not have made it off!"As I was hearing this story I began to realize...I was probably less than a couple of hours from losing my father, my mentor, and my best friend!
Over the next few days they treated him for his PE and eventually released him from the hospital. As my dad rested at home he received a phone call from one of our family members. It would be a call that would re-emphasize my dad's belief that "life is too short"...
"I just wanted to check in on you and make sure everything was going ok. Are you feeling better?"- "I am. Just trying to heal up right now. I will probably be off my feet for a couple of days."
"Well Jim, I guess this is a pretty good sign that you need to slow down!"- "Slow down?!?! I think it is a sign that I need to speed up! There are still a ton of things I want to accomplish and I was only a few hours away from never having that opportunity! I will never slow down...and do you know why? Because life is too short!"That was turning point in my dad's life...and in mine! That day taught me a lot about life, work, and relationships.
A few months later my dad and my step mom started their marriage ministry and began pursuing many of the dreams they put off. It also drove me to ask myself, "What do you really want to do? What is that that you could not imagine NOT doing?
It was the ultimate awakening for me!
Jason...Why this topic? Why now?Over the past few months a number of people have lost their jobs or taken pay cuts. While unfortunate, it reveals our true passion by removing money from the equation. It also allows us to ask ourselves...
Do I really enjoy what I am doing?
Is this really what I feel called to pursue?
If this was my last day, week, month, or year on Earth...would I want to spend that time in this office?
My guess is that there would be some of us that are right where we need to be. We wake up excited to go to work. We feel that we are leaving our mark on this globe and we couldn't imagine doing anything else.
But...
I would say that there are probably more individuals out there who dream about doing something else. We may have jumped into a job without any passion or lost it somewhere along the way. If this is you I encourage you to ask yourself a few questions...
If I hit the lottery tomorrow, would I stay where I am?
What would I do if money, power, recognition, and/or pride was not an issue?
What am I teaching my children by pursuing something that I am not passionate about?
3 Reasons We Should "Get Excited or GET OUT!"1. Life is too short. One thing that is certain is that life is uncertain. We don't know how long we have so we must find something we love to do and give it everything we have!
2. We will never reach our potential if we are not passionate about what we do. Passion is what keeps us working and pushing when things get tough (ex this economy).
3. It is the greatest gift we could ever give our kids. I am not a parent but the greatest gift my parents have given me is to show me what a passionate professional can accomplish!
Are you passionate about what you are doing?
If you experienced what my dad experienced, how would that change your career path?
I hope this post has encouraged you to "Get Excited or GET OUT!"