
"Jason,
After reading your article it made me think. I am a 52 year old sales manager and I am getting a little fed up with young people getting rid of old fashion networking for this new "social media". Back when I was starting out we put our nose to the pavement and sought out valuable relationships. Now you "young guns" think that it can all be done on the internet. Not meaning to bash your article but I think this Twitter and Facebook crap is just that...CRAP!"
While confused (given that the individual found me on a BLOG), I was not up upset. Sometimes the best learning occurs when we take our views and allow others to critique them. Being an introspective person is a great foundation for continuous growth.
So what I will do now is give you, and this anonymous author, my thoughts on why I feel that this technology is so important...
Earlier today I was speaking with Donna Fisher (www.DonnaFisher.com), one of the leading experts on networking, and we were discussing the direction networking is going. Donna is an active user of Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn and she believes that while networking is still built around the same framework, there are numerous tools on the market that allow us to reach a community that was previously unavailable.
After thinking about Donna's point of view I decided to share some supporting thoughts of my own...
What do you mean "Hammer or Nail Gun"?
Networking is much like building a home in the fact that it takes a great deal of time and there are not many shortcuts that can be made. When building a home, time and quality have a strong correlation with one another. We must still pour the foundation and begin piecing together the frame. If it is something that we want to last, then we must give it the appropriate attention and focus it needs.
The difference in building homes now is, we are using nail guns...not hammers! Using a nail gun does not change the way a home is built or eliminate the need for a solid foundation...it just makes us more efficient at our task.
Would you say that using a nail gun takes away from the structural integrity of a home?
I don't believe so.
The key is not whether we are using a hammer or a nail gun. The most important factor is that a professional is the one placing the nails.
If we take an unprofessional person and give them a LinkedIn account then we will, more than likely, see the development of shallow relationships. That beings said, if we give that same unprofessional individual a face to face meeting, I don't think it will increase their potential for establishing long term relationships.
It is not the mode by which we make the connection...it is our purpose when pursuing the relationship!
Simply put...
If we take a genuine interest in other people and seek out ways to help them, we will be build lasting relationships!
Thoughts?
Thank you to all of you for your feedback, whether it supports my view or not! Both groups impact my growth and the growth of those around me. I hope you have a great week and feel free to offer suggestions for future YOUNG GUNS blog posts!
Jason@aplayersonline.com